Okay.
I'd say sorry but at this point I'd be just lying. I absolutely suck at this. But I need to talk about everyone's current obsession: Thirteen Reasons Why.
And before we begin, I'm not a mental health professional and all opinions stated about the show are my own musings and not meant to be offensive or non-factual in anyway.
Now I haven't read the book, though I am an avid reader, but the series has caused quite a stir. I'm not going to say watch it or don't, that's your choice. But please don't let children under the age of 15 watch it. I'm a huge fan of ratings and it's rated that way for a reason. I might also suggest if you are a parent and on the fence - maybe watch it with your teenagers so you can answer any questions.
But lets get to why I came here - 2 episodes from the finish line - those heart breaking moments when Clay thinks that he killed Hannah by doing what she asked him to. It's probably clear to people who have been distraught and depressed, that often times (as its different for everyone), that the person you scream at, that you push away, is the one person you don't want to leave you.
This is for people that listen and leave us alone: You did the right thing. It's a fault that you left us alone when we asked you too. Its not your fault. Just like its not Clays fault. Its not even the bullies fault and yes despite not having seen it - its not Bryce's fault either (though he is a grade A dick and Criminal).
I have stoically watched the series, probably thinking what was Clay's deal. What did he do to deserve his place in Hannah's List. Personally I was devastated that his only crime seems to be being a decent, shy guy, who was honestly confused about what he was supposed to do. And I don't blame him. I don't know what I'd do with me on a bad day either.
Anyway - Just needed to get that out. After my 5mintue ugly cry. I'm going to go and finish the rest of the episodes now and hope to god Bryce gets his due.
If you know anyone, or are someone, who thinks suicide is the only option please consider talking to someone about it. If you cant talk to family or friends please contact your own GP (Mine helped me a lot) or the numbers below for advice.
Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 https://www.beyondblue.org.au/
Headspace: https://www.headspace.org.au/
Life Line: 13 11 14
Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800
These services are there to help and I hope that people are using them.
I really hope that everyone is doing okay and hopefully I have a happier update next time, any requests?
Cheers.
